I looked up and the sky was blue.
I don’t know why that is so important, except that it is — blue — today. And I would have missed it, if I hadn’t looked up.
There are so many days when I don’t. Because it usually looks like this.
How often do we miss out on the amazing beauty in our life because we just don’t look up?
“What if we believed in the deep places, the darkest recesses, that God always provides — and not barely, but abundantly? Wouldn’t we always be at peace — no matter what? What if thanks in all things actually could be easy — because we believe that God always gives us the thing we exactly need? What if gratitude was as natural as breathing, because we knew in our bones that the air we breathe is grace? (… A Holy Experience)”
We are having an ongoing discussion in our house about “Needs vs. Wants.”
Do we need cable? Do I need books of my own or will the library suffice? Does my daughter need rain boots or want them? Why won’t snow boots work in the rain? Do we need Ezekiel 4:9 Organic Sprouted Whole Grain bread or just want it? Are we desperate for fizzy water (what we call mineral water in our house) or can we live without? Does the cat need a new collar when her old one works perfectly well? My daughter is concerned that she (the cat) got her feelings hurt because she received the dead cat’s collar. Hm … Does Tom need seven or eight guitars, even if they are a knock off brands from China? But you see what I mean? And that’s just scratching the surface.
“Your Father knows the things you have need of before you ask Him” (Matt. 6:8).
“My God shall supply all your needs, according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus” (Phil 4:19).
Things. Needs. Wants. It’s hard. It’s complicated!!!
I think we have many different motivations for making change in our lives. It is smart or prudent or loving or generous or “the adult” thing to do. I’m thinking of money and resources now, all the stuff of life. To begin to make those choices because it is all God’s anyway, well, that’s a whole other league of maturity. Dang, why is it so hard?
What I’m talking about here is complicated.
Our motivations. Why do we think we need all this stuff? Cable. Books. Rain boots. Gourmet food. Stuff for the animals. More than one of anything? Yes, I have money on the brain.
But it is more than that. It’s about being discontent on a deep, cellular level. My pastor called it a cancer and I think it really is.
If you have spent time overseas or simply in a different less abundant and materialistic culture you likely were floored by how great that was. For me, a summer pared down to a forty pound backpack was still more than my Russian students had. I seriously never wanted to come back to America. I felt for the first time an incredible freedom from caring about the things that are so important in America.
I believe. I believe that God will care for me all my life.
Not that good things will always happen to me or that bad things won’t. Rather that in the midst of life and its icky messes God is here and he loves me. I’ve never had the courage to read the book of Job all the way through because I’ve always thought that if I read it God will think I’m ready to live it.
I have never felt persecuted. Even in the midst of my father’s illness and mother’s illness going on at the same time. Even with major depression not receding no matter how much effort and work I spent on it. Even needing medication and finding out I was pregnant. And then losing the baby. Losing my father. Helping my mother get into recovery. Already struggling with my own addictions. Even in the midst of all that — which I found myself recounting to a friend the other day — I believed. Deep down I believed God would care for me.
I’m reading, slowly as it applies, The Women’s Bible Commentary. (see desc. below) As I was reading about the Psalms I read this:
“Those who speak with complete candor in the presence of God, those who articulate their doubts and their pain as well as their trust in God are all included among the faithful in the Psalms. Women who have been taught (like children) to be “seen and not heard” in relation to faith and religion should notice that the very act of putting anger, impatience, and frustration into words often enables the speakers in the Psalms to come to a renewed sense of assurance in God’s continuing care. The confessional stance of the Psalmists (their willingness to articulate feelings of anger and pain as well as joy in the presence of God, their refusal to submit passively to oppressive circumstances, and their confidence in God’s concern for their needs) has had and continues to have a significant influence in shaping the theology, the piety and the lives of many women.”
This has been my experience. I think this is why during all of that which I listed above the one thing I was able to do was cry out to God. Many times by writing but also with friends, and in prayer or through reading Bible, especially the Psalms. My bitterness toward my parents manifested in depression, low self-esteem, alcoholism … My poetry is so real because it came from that core.
When I first wrote it was God cleansing and healing me. A secondary result has been how my words have helped others — perhaps jog a mind or heart to circumstances between themselves and God. That was an unexpected delight.
Do you believe God will care for you, abundantly?
If you aren’t sure cry out to him. He listens. He is good and he is our Shepherd. (John 10) This section of scripture describes the most incredibly loving relationship between Jesus and people. He calls his sheep by name. The sheep know his voice. Jesus is the gate for the sheep. Whoever enters by Jesus will be saved and will come in and go out and will find pasture. The thief comes to steal kill and destroy. “But I came that they may have life and have it abundantly!”
Write thy blessed name, o Lord, upon my heart, there to remain so indelibly engraved, that no prosperity, no adversity shall ever move me from thy love. Be thou to me a strong tower of defense, a comforter in tribulation, a deliverer in distress, a very present help and a guide to heaven through the many temptations and dangers of this life.
— Thomas a Kempis
I want to be content. I want it to be true of me. All I need is my pasture. And the Good Shepherd calling me by name.
Be well, Melody
I highly recommend The Women’s Bible Commentary if you preach or teach, especially if you’re male. It will give you a perspective that you cannot possibly have since you are not a woman.
From the back of The Women’s Bible Commentary — an outstanding groups of women scholars introduced and summarized each book of the Bible and commented on those sections of each book that have particular relevance to women, focusing on female characters, symbols, life situations such as marriage and family, the legal status of women, and religious principles that affect relationships between women and men. (It also has a huge bibliography!)