So you want to be a moral force in the world?

What else can be more worth it than giving the gift of the perfect question in a world uncomfortable with the answers but too frightened or too complacent or too ambitious to raise these doubts again?”

The following is so timely especially in light of the conversation that was occurring on my Facebook page (scroll down to Civil Unions.)

This struck me as simple, wise and profound so I had to post it in its entirety here.  This was written by Joan Chittister.

To Be A Moral Force in the World

There are three obstacles to our personal development that would make us a moral force in the world.

First, fear of loss of status has done more to chill character than history will ever know. We do not curry favor with kings by pointing out that the emperor has no clothes. We do not gain promotions by countering the beloved viewpoints of the chair of the board or the bishop of the diocese. We do not figure in the neighborhood barbecues if we embarrass the Pentagon employees in the gathering by a public commitment to demilitarization. It is hard time, this choice of destiny between public conscience and social acceptability. Then we tell ourselves that nothing is to be gained by upsetting people. And sure enough, nothing is.

Second, personal comfort is a factor, too, in the decision to let other people bear responsibility for the tenor of our times. It takes a great deal of effort to turn my attention beyond the confines of where I work and where I live and what my children do. It lies in registering interest in something beyond my small, small world and perhaps taking part in group discussions or lectures. It requires turning my mind to substance beyond sitcoms and the sports channel and the local weekly. It means not allowing myself to go brain-dead before the age of forty. But these things that cost comfort are exactly the things that will, ultimately, make life better for my work and my children.

Third, fear of criticism is no small part, surely, of this unwillingness to be born into the world for which I have been born. To differ from the mainstream of humanity, to take a position that is not popular tests the tenor of the best debaters, the strongest thinkers, the most skilled of speakers. To do that at the family table or in the office takes the utmost in courage, the ultimate in love, the keenest communication skills. And who of us have them?

The process of human discourse is a risky one. Other people speak more clearly or convincingly than we do. Other people have better academic backgrounds than we do. Other people have authority and robes and buttons and titles that we do not now and ever will have, and to confront those things takes nerve of a special gauge. I may lose. I may make a perfect fool out of myself. But everybody has to be perfect about something. What else can be more worth it than giving the gift of the perfect question in a world uncomfortable with the answers but too frightened or too complacent or too ambitious to raise these doubts again?

It is important to have convictions based on our own moral compass.  And yet there is some risk in the expression of those ideas.  We risk isolation, ridicule or criticism.  I am working on finding my own voice which for too long has been easy influenced by others telling me both what I should and shouldn’t think.  This is especially true in the evangelical Christian community toward women.

I think it is high time that I figure some things out.  The time seems to have come that I can no longer stand back and quote only what others say, but say what I think.  And let that be that.  Yes, I think it is right.

3 thoughts on “So you want to be a moral force in the world?

  1. Agreed and well said, Melody.

    I spent years observing, thinking through what I believed and why, asked many tough questions and came to a very unexpected and compelling conclusion. So many things now make sense to me.

    I wish you all the best during your time of evaluation. May you find peace at the end of your journey…


  2. Well written, Melody. God’s greatest gift to humanity (outside of JC) is our ability to reason and use logic. Kudos to you for using that gift to see that God intends for ALL to sit at the table.


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